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Dyslexia and Emotional Intelligence

Understanding, acknowledging and discussing the ‘emotional side’ of dyslexia is highly important in modern day society. Sadly, this psychological component often remains missed, overlooked and unconsidered. In a previous blog post, in which I discussed the ‘positive elements and side to dyslexia’, I delved into the world of personality traits and touched upon how dyslexics can present with high levels of emotional intelligence, empathy, sympathy and an awareness of others emotions. Distinguishing between empathy and sympathy, the importance of these characteristics within the neurodiverse world was strongly emphasised. Within this post however, I wish to dive deeper into this psychological realm and explore why dyslexics may have particular strengths in this area.

Like jumping into the deep ocean, exploring one’s emotions and feelings can be complex, and somewhat mysterious. But, being able to identify, recognise and try to understand our emotions is an excellent ability to possess. Why might a dyslexic, or member of the neurodivergent community, be highly empathetic or skilled at identifying and understanding their own and others emotional states? In order to answer this three main points will be explored and discussed. Firstly, it is theorised that dyslexics may have high levels of emotional intelligence, sensitivity and awareness of others emotions because they frequently experience ‘secondary symptoms of dyslexia’. These psychological symptoms that run alongside language and processing-based difficulties can include anxiety, stress, confusion, embarrassment, guilt and possibly frustration at their own abilities/skillsets (Aston: 2016, The Emotional Repercussions of Dyslexia). Because dyslexics have increased exposure and potentially a higher proneness to these negative secondary symptoms and emotional characteristics, these individuals naturally are able to connect and understand those who also experience these emotions. For example, in order to reduce stress and worry in daily life a dyslexic teacher may provide their dyslexic students with notes or PowerPoint slides for their lessons. Or a dyslexic child, adolescent or adult may share coping strategies and ‘dyslexic life hacks’ around spelling, reading or memory strategies with their dyslexic friends, peers or colleagues. Ultimately, this provides an excellent framework and grassroot for building mutually meaningful and trusting relationships with others.

Emotional intelligence is a term regularly heard. Its true meaning surrounds an individual being able to recognise, appreciate and comprehend the emotions and feelings of both themselves and others. Crucially, this involves high levels of self-awareness and social-emotional skill. Linked to the abilities of sympathy (being able to understand another’s emotions) and empathy, (in which an individual can place themselves another person’s shoes or position) these skills can help reduce stress, improve effective communication with others and negate conflict in social situations (Discussing the Dyslexic Brain, 2018). Interestingly, as dyslexics often have first-hand first-person experiences of facing difficult tasks, potentially troublesome daily activities and dealing with the secondary impacts of dyslexia they are excellently poised to assist others in a similar position to themselves. In this way, a neurodiverse individual may not like to observe and witness another person struggle with particular tasks or situations.

Moreover, due to their experiences of being dyslexic and finding some tasks particularly challenging and stress inducing many dyslexics may often feel ‘different’ or like an outsider compared to their peers. Although at first glance this may seem to appear as a negative feature, due to this dyslexics can develop a strong sense of justice, community spirit or belongingness with others within the neurodiverse population (Davis Dyslexia Association International, 2008). This stems from an innate and natural human drive of wishing to connect with those who are similar to ourselves and assist those who share the same concerns, struggles, interests and/or personality traits and characteristics. These notions of wishing to building connections with alike others, alongside aforementioned empathic abilities, also relates to the concept and moral principle of altruism. Better known as ‘helping behaviour’ as well as showing care and concern for others, altruistic behaviours also form a vital part of being emotionally intelligent and aware of others.

Emotional intelligence and ‘emotional awareness’ can be a great skill and strength found amongst many dyslexics. This highly desirable trait lies within the psychological and emotional realm of dyslexia; of which often lays forgotten. Nonetheless and despite this, having an excellent awareness and understanding of both others and one’s own emotions in combination with altruistic tendencies remains a vital cog for building successful meaningful relationships.

Useful Links

Aston, P (2016). The Emotional Repercussions of Dyslexia accessed on 13th November 2020 at,

Davis Dyslexia Association International (2008). Common Characteristics of Adult Dyslexia accessed on 13th November 2002, at

For further information on beneficial personality traits within dyslexics, including sympathy and empathy check out the link to a previous blog post below:

Discussing The Dyslexic Brain (2018). Putting a Positive Spin on Dyslexia accessed on 13th November 2020, at

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